Boys Weekend in New York

Hey Yall! I am a little bit behind on reporting things that have been happening with the family. Sorry! Back in September when Julianne and I were having a fabulous "Julianne's Birthday Weekend", Dick, Jamie and Chris were in New York. They had tickets to a Yankee's game. The next to the last game at Yankee Stadium. You know the story about "that" stadium. We really wanted to make it a fun long weekend get together for the whole family, but due to so many of the family being college students, it just was not possible. They were all supposed to fly into JFK within an hour of each other. Due to a "variety" of reasons (flights canceled, over sleeping...) Chris was the only one who arrived on time. He had the honor of waiting 3 hours for the other two to arrive! Once they got together, they went non-stop until they arrived back at the airport early Sunday morning. It was a quick but busy weekend. Jamie and Chris had never been to NYC. I think they are ready to go back! I know I am.

Here are some of the pictures from the trip. What happened to my little boys? Oh, and the short one? He's the daddy!

Ladybugs Go Away!

Hey Yall! Welcome to our ladybug house. I hate ladybugs. Really hate them. Today, I was walking outside and looked up at the side of the house. UGH! They are here. We get thousands and thousands of ladybugs each fall. They will search and search until they find someway to get into the house. And then they spread the word to all their friends. And then they tell a friend and, well, you get the idea. They will be all over the house. I will have to get the vacuum out and try and get them out that way. If you leave them around until they die, they end up leaving little black dots on the walls. And I will leave that up to your imagination as to what the black dots are. I hate 'em. Ugh.

Happy Birthday Linley!

Monday was Linley Shea's Birthday. I did call her and wish her a very Happy Birthday, but unfortunately, I didn't resume my blogging until yesterday. So, Happy Birthday Linley! We love you!

I'M BAAAAAAAAACK!!!!!!!!

Hey Yall! I am back to blogging after a very long break. If reading my blog is your only way to get through the day, as it seems from email that some of you have this problem, it is time to get a life. For the rest of you, who have so patiently waited and waited and waited, I apologize and promise that today is the beginning of many new posts. Thanks for sticking with me and faithfully checking to see if I have updated.

I returned home Monday from South Carolina. I flew down to see my friend Beth. She and her husband Scott are two of the strongest people I know. Scottie was honored at an absolutely beautiful funeral that deeply touched my heart. Their family touched many people in the area and it was very evident at the funeral. Please continue to keep them in your prayers.

Today I finally managed to vacuum. Thank goodness. I feel like we have been breeding dust bunnies! They were everywhere. Tomorrow will be dusting day. And damp moping day. Unfortunately, this sounds easier than it will be. It will probably take me all day to finish. I am slightly behind in cleaning the house. I am getting that nesting for winter feeling. I can tell from the temps that it is just around the corner here in Maine.

I took the camera outside today and took some pictures from our yard of the beautiful colors all around us.



This is a tree at the end of our driveway.



Now how did that get here? "I'm a Ramblin' Wreck from Georgia Tech..."







That's all for today. I will be back tomorrow. Tootles!

Hey Yall. I am writing this with a very heavy heart. Today, Scottie left this world to be with our Heavenly Father. No more pain and no more suffering. And after a good long cry, I must tell you that I feel so at peace for him. His family has shown such faith in God during these past weeks. I want to share the updates from their website that will give you a glimpse of their strong faith and their love for their son. Be sure and read all the way to the end.


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SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 27, 2008 08:03 PM, CDT
Today we right with a very heavy hearts. As we know yesterday was not a good day. Today started out not good with a 3am phone call from the hospital. Scotties oxygen level dropped to 82 and they had to go up even more on the nitric machine to 32. His oxygen level went up slowly throughout the day and is now at 93.

We asked to meet with the doctor to discuss Scottie's condition. We met with Dr. Schinco who is great. She explained that her biggest concerns are the chest infection and that they are throwing every antibiotic at it that they can. In a perfect they would do surgery to remove the infection but there is no way Scottie would survive it. Not much hope that the antibiotics will take care of it. Next is his heart. The right side of his heart is being heavily strained due to the high pressures, and it cannot keep working against those pressures. It will eventually fail. Problem is we drop the pressures his oxygen drops off. Next is that if he were to survive all of this she feels he would have to be on the ventilator forever. In short his quality of life if he survives all of these issues would not be very good. Those that know Scottie well, know that he would not want to live like that. So we are now faced with a very difficult decision. The machines are basically keeping him going. We knew this all along but were hoping for his lungs to heal good enough to turn the machines off. That has not happened.

This is a very hard decision. We know that Scottie has fought the good fight as hard as he can and because of that we do not want him to continue to struggle, and also want things to be as peaceful and painless for him as possible. We also know that the doctors have done absolutely everything that they can to help Scottie heal. Therefore the only thing left is miracle from God. We have not given up hope for that miracle and it will happen if it is Gods will. If not, we know that Scottie will finally be totally healed and with the Lord.

There is not push for us to do this. It is basically our decision as to what we do and when. The final decision will definitely not be made tonight unless God makes it for us. Tonight we will discuss it more and pray about it alot.
The only verses that come to mind are;
Luke 42
Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me;
yet not my will, but yours be done.
Matthew 6:10
Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.

We now need you to pray specific prayers for God to perform a miracle if it is his will. And if not we need God to speak to us to know that Thy Will Be Done in our decisions.

God Bless,
Scott and Beth Marlowe



MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2008 01:11 AM, CDT
I am sorry that I am so late with my message tonight, but it has been a long day. We visited with Scottie this morning and then went to church. Then we met with Dr. Schinko to talk about procedures tomorrow. Then we met with CJ to talk about procedures for organ donation. It was somewhat comforting to know that some of Scotties organs will be used to save someone's life and that it will happen within 24 hours.
Baring a miracle which we still have not given up on, they will begin turning off the life supports around 12:00 noon tomorrow. This is somewhat up in the air depending on scheduling for the OR, we will know a more definite time in the morning.

I feel that I must a story with you that happened yesterday(Sat) morning. We received a call at 3am that his oxygen level had dropped off and they had to go up on his Nitric and Vent settings. So we got dressed and went straight to the hospital. His oxygen was low at 82%, but slowly creeped up to 85%. I had only been asleep for about 2 hours when we received the call and little Will was with us so I decided to take him to the little room as we have come to call it. I pulled 2 chairs together for him to sleep on and 2 for me. The nurse was gracious enough to bring us pillows and blankets. Well I also fell asleep for about an hour or two. Well I had a dream or vision depending on how you look at it. Scottie came to me in his hospital gown threw his arms around me hugged me and said I'm sorry I didn't mean for this to happen. Someone at that moment opened the door to the room and I awoke so my dream was not finished or maybe it was. I tell you this because I know it was from the Lord. I had only had one other dream the whole time we were here and it was a after a rough day and Scottie came to me and said I am ok. I know it was the Lord for several reasons, one is because as Scottie was walking up to me it was as if his face was changing between Jesus and Scottie. Another is I could have stayed in the room with Scottie and let Beth go with Will but I chose to go. Another is God has amazing timing and knew what discussions would take place later on with the doctors and the dream/vision helped to ease the pain of those decisions and helped me know that we were making the right decision. We are only certain of 2 things tomorrow, first, whatever happens it will be God's will and what is best for Scottie, and second that Scottie will be healed either way.


This is one of my favorite songs about our walk in the Christian faith. Some of you may know it. It just says it all.

Weak and wounded sinner lost and left to die, Raise your head for love is passing by,
Come to Jesus, Come to Jesus, Come to Jesus and Live
Now your burdens lifted and carried far away, Precious blood has washed away the stain,
So sing to Jesus, Sing to Jesus, Sing to Jesus and Live,
Like a new born baby don't be afraid to crawl, Remember when you walk sometimes we fall,
So fall on Jesus, fall on Jesus, fall on Jesus and Live,
Sometimes the way is lonely is steep and filled with pain, So if your sky is dark and pours the rain.
Then cry to Jesus, cry to Jesus, cry to Jesus and Live,
Oh and when the love spills over and music fills the night, And when you can't contain your joy inside,
Then dance for Jesus, dance for Jesus, dance for Jesus and Live,
And with your final heartbeat, and kiss the world goodbye, then go in peace and laugh on glories side,
And fly to Jesus, fly to Jesus, fly to Jesus and Live, fly to Jesus, fly to Jesus, fly to Jesus and Live!

God Bless,
Scott and Beth Marlowe



MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2008 09:39 PM, CDT
Dearest Friends,
Today was about as perfect a day as it could be under the circumstances. Our dearest Scottie made the trip from the 8th to the 2nd floor with no problems at all even though they had to move him with all of the tubes and equipment hooked up to him. This was so they could get him to the OR for the organ donations.
We had some very good quality time with him and many of his Navy buddies were there to visit him. The hospital was great as they let us have open time yesterday and today. It was so great to see him surrounded by both of his families us and the Navy.

This morning before leaving the motel I prayed for God to give us reassurance that we had made the right decision. As our family and friends were gathered in his room on the 8th floor we had a service for Scottie out of our prayer book. As Paul was conducting the service Scottie blood pressure and heart rate dropped way off, he rebounded but that was God's sign that we were right in our decision. What a relief! It was a beautiful service and I know that Scottie knows we were there.
We even had the pleasure of looking into those beautiful eyes one more time as he opened them a few times briefly.

Throughout the morning it was great to see Scottie as Scottie again when they took his neck and chest brace off. He looked like he was ready to go to the river like he loved to do so much. And then in the OR after they turned off the ventilator the doctor removed all of the tubes from his mouth and I know that had to feel so good to him after 51 days. He looked so good.

One of the most memorable moments today took place in the OR. All of the equipment was turned off and we were just enjoying being there for these moments. Well Scottie opened his eyes one last time and looked straight at me. It was only for a few moments but it seemed like forever. Beth and I just talked to him and let him know that everything was ok, that we loved him very much and were so proud him for the fight he had put up and that it was time for him to rest. And that even though there were many sad tears in that room there were many happy tears in Heaven waiting to see him. We just THANK GOD so much for such a beautiful moment.

Scottie passed away peacefully. And now he is healed, no more pains, tubes or machines. We are so proud of our precious Scottie and the way he fought so hard and we know he is in a much better place with Jesus. It is so comforting to know that as I am writing this there are lives that have already been saved from the donation of his kidneys and liver along with other organs. Another blessing from God, because if he had not made it to the OR they would not have been able to use them. It so wonderful to know that Scottie is still doing great things even when he has left this world.

We will be heading back to Georgetown tomorrow. We do not know when services will be yet because of getting his body back to Georgetown. It looks like either Thursday or Friday depending on when they release his body, the State Medical Examiner has to do that due to the accident. I will post it as soon as we know. And I am also going to continue this sight for a while so please continue to check and leave us messages.

Now it is all of our jobs to live a life worthy of our Lord so we can all see him once again. And I know he will be waiting with open arms, that beautiful smile and big hugs.

God Bless,
Scott and Beth Marlowe

Please continue to pray for our friends and for their loss.

Happy Birthday Julianne!

Hey Yall! Today is the day of Julianne's blessed day of birth. Twenty one years ago today I was in the hospital doing my best to give birth to a baby. After having two beautiful boys, I was fully prepared to give birth to another one. It really didn't matter. I loved my boys. You don't have another baby to get a different sex from what you have, at least I wouldn't. So after being induced at 8 that morning, I enjoyed my morning with an epidural. No big deal. Until around 2 when the epidural started to wear out. I was very lucky and fortunate to have a good friend as my obstetrician. He ordered another injection for the epidural which I like to call "relief". At 2:30, my boys were given a little sister and Dick and I were given a daughter! Little Julianne Elaine was born! We were both very shocked, surprised and so thankful that we now had a daughter and she was healthy.

Julianne, we love you so much and thank you for being the sweet girl that you are! You make us proud to be your parents. Happy Birthday!

Tootles!

Hey Yall! I am having a fabulous time with Julianne during her "Birthday Weekend" on the eve before we celebrate the day of her blessed birth! (Thanks John, I cannot say anything about birthdays now without saying that.) I got here around 7:30 last night and unloaded all my stuff and Weezie's stuff. Yes, Weezie is here to celebrate the blessed day of Julianne's birth also. She is thrilled as always. Snoring even louder. We decided to go and eat and then get some movies. Julianne's cable and internet will not be hooked up until the first part of October....curses. We ended up eating french toast for dinner. Yumm. Then on the pick out a movie. Unfortunately, we were not able to find a movie that looked interesting to us. So we went to the TV shows. I like the Sopranos, but I wanted to start with season 1 and unfortunately, somebody rudely decided not to return (ever) the first disc of the first season of the Sopranos and since I had never seen the first few seasons of the show, somehow missing the first 4 episodes kind of ruined the excitement for me. Since Julianne would not watch Sex and the City with me, another show I have not seen, well, our choices were narrowing. We have always thought "My Name is Earl" was funny, so we rented the whole first season. I can't remember when I have laughed so much. So this is Frannycakes first recommendation on TV program season dvd rental.....GO RENT THE FIRST SEASON OF MY NAME IS EARL!!!! You're welcome.

We went to bed around 12 and got up around 10. We watched more "Earl" and drank coffee and then showered and dressed. I took Weezie out while Julianne was finishing up and decided to take her for a walk. I guess the fact that compared to being at our house in the sticks is a little different than being on a street with cars and people, her "bowels" were confused. I had to pick up doggy doo for half a block....take 10 steps, drop a doo......10 more steps, drop a doo......You get the picture. I think she has been saving up because a 12 pound dog should never have that much crap in it. She is back inside snoring and about 10 pounds lighter. I should be so lucky.

We are about to leave and go to the mall. And the Goodwill. Wish us luck! I'll talk to you later! Tootles!

Hey Yall! Thursday is turning out to be a pretty good day in my little world. And why is that I know you are asking. It is turning out to be a good day because absolutely nothing is happening. Nothing. I love it like that. I still have on my pj's. No, I don't have on my sexy flannel pj's because up until today it hasn't been that cool. BUT......tonight we are under a frost warning, so they may be making their way out of the drawer tonight! I have devoured a whole pot of coffee and caught up on all the depressing news out there AND on my favorite bloggers. No, they are not depressing.....they are inspiring! I talked to my bff (Like my hip new abbreviations?) Elaine and my bff Beth. I cleaned out the dishwasher and reloaded it. I have a couple of craft projects that I want to start and they don't require me to change my clothes. Doesn't that sound fabulous? But that day will have to continue some other time. I need to go and mow the grass. Would it be bad of me to mow the grass then come back inside and put back on my pj's?

Monday is Julianne's birthday! I am going to spend the weekend with her while her daddy takes the boys to NY to the baseball game and tour around the big city. Julianne keeps telling us she is packing her bags to go the NY! It will be a really, really quick trip to NY and after trying to work things out for all of us to go, we decided that this time it would be better for just the guys to go together. Hopefully sometime in the future we will be able to take everyone and take our time. I am sure that Julianne and I will have a great weekend also!

I hit the Goodwill yesterday. I found some recently released books that I haven't read. They were $1.99 each. I also found a pretty book on decorating with ribbon. It had some great ideas and instructions how to do it. I also found a valance for $2.99that had some beautiful trim attached to it. I bought it and will remove the trim to use on some other project.

Please continue to pray for Scottie and his family. They still need your prayers. Thank you so much.

I guess I better go put on my mowing clothes. I just looked and the temperature is 64degrees. Don't hate me 'cause I'm cool!

Tootles!

One Tired Woman

Hey Yall! Long time no blog! Lots of things have been going on in Frannycakes life....no, nothing that you should be worried about....just things that have had her preoccupied and away from blogging. Hopefully, life is slowing down and I will be blogging again regularly.

I know that some of you are interested in how Scottie is doing. He is still in intensive care and is in very critical condition. His family is still requesting prayer from everyone and so that is what I am asking from you. I will be posting the updates again from Scott, Scottie's father.

Julianne has started her classes and studying. She is loving her apartment. I plan to go there next weekend to start celebrating her 21st birthday! It is so hard to believe that 21 years have gone by since she came into our lives. And what a nice surprise she was!

Last week my cousin Becky from Florida came for a visit. I introduced her to the finer stores here in Maine....Goodwill and Mardens! She was impressed. And she loved the Christmas Tree Shoppes. All I can say is that if you don't have one of these near you, you are missing out! We went somewhere different each day and came in late every night. I know she must be exhausted because today I slept off and on all day!

I had an appointment with the dentist last Tuesday. I got two crowns and two cavities filled. They are all on the lower left side. My face is still swollen and my jaw doesn't want to open all the way. Ugh! I have an appointment tomorrow morning to get my bite adjusted. They thought they had that taken care of when I left but I was so numb on the left side that I guess I was not able to bite down correctly. My appointment was at 9 am and I didn't get feeling again until 5 that afternoon. Mercy! I don't think I want to ever have that much done again at one time.

That's about all I have for right now. Please remember Scottie and his family. They need our prayers. They are having to make decisions that no parent ever wants to have to make. My heart is breaking for them.

I will talk to you tomorrow. Tootles.

I'm in Love with a Can of Spray Paint

Hey Yall! Frannycakes is tired. She has been busy trying to get everything together for Julianne's apartment. She has been trying to make everything be perfect for Julianne's apartment. She seems to have a different idea of what will be perfect from Julianne. I need an apartment to decorate just like I want it. Cause I have some fabulous ideas. Me and my best friend, spray paint, have been having a great time together. I had found a Pennsylvania House night stand at the Goodwill. I painted it a creamy white. And it looks great! I also painted my grandmother's chest of drawers the same white. I changed the knobs to clear glass ones. Very, very pretty if I must say so myself. Today, Julianne and I went to the Goodwill in Auburn and found a big wicker chest and a small wicker shelf for the bathroom. I sprayed the wicker chest with a pink spray paint. The wicker shelf was painted a sea blue. They both turned out really nice too. We painted 3 of my shutters that I bought several months ago the creamy white. These will be put together and serve as Julianne's new headboard. So the bedroom is coming together. Not in the same color scheme or fabric that I have in mind, but is will be very pretty.

We are going to Orono tomorrow so I can finish painting. I am really looking forward to that. Yeah.....

After all this painting and decorating and moving, I am going to crash. Then I am going to put my house back together. And after that? I am going to paint and redecorate Julianne's room just the way I want to!

Tootles!

Scottie Update

Hey Yall. I got this update tonight from Scott and wanted to share it with you. Thank you for all of your prayers.

8/25/08 PM
We had a stable day today. Vent is at 60% and oxygen at 98%. He is running a little fever but manageable so far. They are going to start going down on the nitrous oxide very slowly, probably from 20 to around 18. They want to get him off of that machine before the ventilator. They did remove one of the chest tubes from his right side today. He seems to be okay with that change. The swelling has gone up but it is just excess air and will go away with time,no danger to him. Everyone we talk to doctors and nurses say we will just see baby steps, not big overnight changes and that it is going to take a long time. Of course no definition of a long time. He has a new nurse tonight who is very helpful with explanations and she will be with him for 3 nights. The good news is no back sliding so far.
We continue to pray for stability, healing of his lungs, and for him to react positive to the changes they make.
God Bless,
Scott and Beth

Scottie Update

Hey Yall. I got this update a few minutes ago and wanted to share it with you. Thank you for all your prayers!

8/23/08 PM
Scottie has been stable all day. His numbers look good oxygen levels 98-100, They have cut the ventilator to 65% and are holding. Temperature is normal.
This has been the longest he has been stable in quite awhile. THANKS BE TO GOD. We are praying for another night with no calls and for him to stay stable. Hopefully they will take some x-rays tomorrow and see at least a little improvement but the nurse says that x-rays will lag behind vitals as far as showing improvement. We hope this is a sign of the miracle we have been waiting on.
On another sad note we have met many people with loved ones in similar conditions to Scotties. One of these is Rachael who is only 17 years old. She came in the hospital the day before Scottie. She was hit by a car as a pedestrian(sounds familiar). When we left tonight she was not doing well like Scottie yesterday. I would ask that you all say an extra prayer for God to start healing Rachael's lungs as well. Also pray for God to comfort her family and keep them strong.
Rest well and we look forward to hopefully more good news tomorrow God Willing.
God Bless,

Scott and Beth

Scottie Update

Hey yall. This is the update that I received tonight from Scott.


8/22/08 9:45 pm
Wow, what a roller coater ride. The good news is he is stable tonight with good oxygen levels etc. The other news is for him to have these numbers they have all machines at 100%. They are going to try and lower the percentage and hopefully his numbers will hold. If so that gives him them some wiggle room if his numbers drop. We continue to pray for healing and a miracle for his lungs. We still believe that God has not let him make it this far to just let go now. Scottie is amazing, every time he has a bout he comes back strong. Thanks for your prayers and support and now we will pray for no phone calls tonight and a restful night for all.

God Bless,

Scott and Beth


Please continue to pray for this family.

Scottie Update

Hey yall. I just got a new update from Scott. Things are not going well right now. Please, please, please, pray for Scottie. This is so critical right now. They have their family there now as well as their priest and some friends.

FRIDAY, AUGUST 22, 2008 03:56 PM, CDT
8/22/08 3:40 pm
I know that I usually send this out in the evening but I feel compelled to do so now. We were called to the hospital at 7:00 am this morning. Scottie had another sinking spell. He is stable at this time. The doctors and Scottie are doing all that they can do. He is a real fighter and fights back each time. His lungs are really sick. They now have 4 tubes in the right chest cavity and 3 in the left to help with fluids and air outside his lungs. We have all been praying hard and need all of you to do the same. He is resting in God's hands we know and we continue to pray for God to restore his lungs to the way he made them. We will go to visit him again at 4:30 and I will have a good report later.
God Bless & Keep The Prayers Going.


Scott & Beth


Thank you.

Scottie Update

8/21/08
Dear Friends,
A better day today Scottie wise. Weather is terrible. They put the 3rd tube in his chest about 12:30 am. It went well and it drained all of the air out of his chest cavity. His oxygen level went from 84 to 176 which is the highest it has been yet. He stayed pretty stable all day had a high temp problem which is ok now. Drew fluids to check for infection and have him on antibiotics. Did not get to talk to doctors today but his respiratory therapist was very thrilled. Maybe we are turning a corner but we do remember we are on God's time and Bubba time. We are very thankful for the turn around today and look forward to better days ahead. We are praying he will stay stable through the night with no phone calls in the middle of the night like the last 2 nights.
Thanks for your continued prayers and support.



God Bless,

Scott and Beth

Scottie Update

Hey Yall. I got this update this morning and wanted to share it with you. Please remember this family in your prayers.

8/20/08
Scottie had a bit of an episode about 12:30 am but was stable when we visited him this morning and early afternoon. Later in the afternoon his oxygen level dropped off. They did X-rays and found that he had an air pocket outside his lung in the chest cavity. They had put in a second chest tube at 12:30 am. They are not sure where the air came from. He was stable when we left tonight. They are going to just leave him alone for now since he is stable.
Scottie is a real fighter and seems to bounce back after each episode. We know that God has him in his hands and that the two of them will work this out. Keep praying for the healing of his lungs and strength to keep fighting.
I couldn't help but think with the storm off of the coast here that Scottie is in his own storm. But Jesus has his hand out just like he did for Peter, and Scottie is holding on while Jesus holds him up.
God Bless Everyone,


Love in Christ


Scott and Beth


Thank you for your prayers....

A Lucky Day!

Hey Yall! Today I decided to stop by the Goodwill to see if I could find a couple of things that we have been looking to get for Julianne's apartment. Due to the fact that our children have lived in about a thousand different apartments (Jamie himself probably lived in 750 different ones), I refuse to buy new things for these new abodes. The first Goodwill I went to I came up empty handed. I almost headed home, but at the last minute decided to go to the other one. When I got there, I headed back to the furniture. I immediately saw this cute tray table that was painted yellow. The price was $3.99. Yep, it was in my price range! Into the buggy you go! Then, I turned and looked over at the pictures they had leaning against the wall. Oh my gosh! There was a water color print of some churches in Charleston, SC. The print was numbered and signed and beautifully framed and matted. It measured 22x18. And it was in good shape. And the price? $6.99!!!!! We lived in Georgetown, SC which is about an hour north of Charleston. My son Jamie graduated from the College of Charleston. So this is a print that I love! I am so glad that I decided to go on to the second store! You just never know!

I will take some pictures of the yellow tray table and post them tomorrow. Tootles!

Update

Hey Yall. This was Scottie's update that came yesterday. I forgot to post it. I will be posting another later today when I get it.

Hello Friends,

Today was an uneventful day. Thanks Be To God. Scottie continues to be stable as they are not messing with him to much. He is still off of his blood pressure medicine which is a good baby step. He continues to fight hard but still on Bubba Time.

The response on caringbridge.org is unbelievable as well as the e-mails we receive each day. We are very blessed to have so many caring,loving, and praying friends. You are all a big inspiration to us. I know I say this a lot but Thanks so much for being there for us.

The Lord says that his time is not our time and so we will wait patiently for him to do his work. We know that he is there with Scottie and also with us.

Continue to pray and we love each and every one of you and are sure feeling your love with us.

God Bless You and Yours,

Scott and Beth


Thank you for all the prayers. They are needed and appreciated by all. Especially Frannycakes.

Hey yall! This morning I woke up to rain. I love doing that. It just begs you to stay in bed. And I am usually more than willing to oblige. So around 9 I finally rose and headed downstairs. After a few cups of coffee and watching Matt, I got busy. I got my shower and then started vacuuming. I must not be doing it right cause it takes me forever. Or maybe because I had to talk to Chris every 5 minutes. He was busy getting loose ends tied up for school tomorrow. He went to buy his books. $985.00!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I immediately started to feel sick. He sounded sick. Dick will be ill. Will these chill'uns ever get out of school? Then he had to go get a parking permit. I believe it was $270.00. I need to stop now cause I'm feeling sick again.

The temps dropped this afternoon. I have closed all the windows and doors. I have on my long pajama bottoms, t-shirt, socks and sweat shirt jacket. Plus, I have a blanket over me. Where's a good hot flash when you need one?

Don't forget to pray for Scottie and his family. They need your help.

Tootles!

Living Green

Hey Yall! Frannycakes is always trying to her best to do what she can for the environment. We recycle. We use energy efficient light bulbs. We drive energy efficient cars. We rarely run the air conditioner.

So today I will start a new energy saving, living green, habit. Not to brag or anything like. It is a sacrifice that I am willing to make. I will begin taking a nap every afternoon. To conserve energy, you know.




I challenge you too to live green.......Tootles.

Update

Hey Yall. Please keep up your prayers for Scottie and his family. Below is an update I got this morning.


8/17/08
A better day today. When we left a 9:00pm there had been no issues today. They are just leaving him alone for now not messing with the NOM machine so he has been stable since about 10:00 last night. The surgery is off until his lungs are better. His lungs are worse than they had thought. They are giving him antibiotics to fight off infection. They will heal in time. The doctor says it could be 3 days, weeks, or months. He is young and strong so that is in his favor. My dad has always called him Bubba and he is a tad bit lazy so we say he going to heal on Bubba time. Since God's time is not our time and we are on Bubba time this could take a while.

Thanks again for your support, e-mails, phone calls and prayers, keep them coming.

God Bless.

Scott



Thanks again. Really.

Hey Yall! Nothing much happening in Maine today. The weather was wonderful. Cool and clear. I can't complain about that. I am sure I can find something to complain about if you will just give me time!

Dick took me to brunch this morning. We went to our favorite "brunch place" and had a wonderful breakfast. We are never disappointed when we eat there. And it is nice to get to go out for breakfast! We stopped by the Walmart and Dick wanted me to get him an iced coffee. As I was ordering, I looked up at the menu and remembered that they now have a Coffee Coolatta. Oh. My. Goodness. Now I lurve the Tropicana Orange Coolatta. But this ranks right up there with it. It tastes like a chocolate milkshake. mmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Yep....it is my new "fall" drink.

And fall is creeping in the door up here. I am seeing more and more red leaves in the trees. Our back yard has some leaves on the ground right now. Fall is so pretty around here and I am looking forward to the beautiful colors again. Anybody want to come visit?

Frannycakes is slowly but surely getting into one foul mood. Horrible. So I am gonna close my computer up after I say "Tootles" and hit the sack. It always helps.

That's all here folks. I will send an update on Scottie tomorrow morning. Don't forget to say a prayer for him and his family. Frannycakes thanks you so much! Tootles.

Update

Hey Yall. I appreciate all the prayers you have given for Scottie and his family. They are very much appreciated. This is the update from his dad Scott.

8/16/08
The day started out very well with them cutting back on the nitrous oxide machine (nom). They tried to take him off and he did not like it so they put him back on. Tonight they had to clean out his lungs again and that is where the trouble started. His oxygen level dropped way off and he did not respond to the ventilator so they had to manually pump oxygen to his lungs. By the grace of GOD he stabilized after about an hour of this. The good news if any was that it only took an hour. We learned that they had to do this the other night and it took 2 hours to get him to stabilize. His lungs are in very bad shape and the doctor says they can heal it is just going to take a long time. They will continue to clean his lungs as needed to keep them clear of infection. Each time they do this there is a chance of his oxygen falling and they will have to repeat the procedure done tonight. The big plus is young and strong, plus GOD is on his side.

All we can do now is pray and wait for his lungs to heal. Thanks again for your continued prayers. There is no doubt in my mind that GOD is hearing them and will see us through this.

God Bless You All & pray that God will find a way.

Scott


Thank you so much.

Hey Yall! Frannycakes had a busy day today. Julianne informed us last Sunday that we had to have her moved out of her old apartment at school by 12:00 on Friday. After some thought, I decided that we would go on Thursday at lunch. She took half of a day off work and we headed up to school. We worked pretty steady bagging things to bring home and wash, things to move to the new apartment and things to throw away. We had to make three trips! Plus we had to clean her room and the bathroom. The same bathroom that she had not been in since school got out the first of June. The other girls had been using it and it was disgusting. It ranked right up there with some of the boys' bathrooms I have seen. But we cleaned it and got out of there.

We are going to paint the interior of Julianne's apartment. There is wallpaper up now. It is in a house that has been divided up into several different apartments. And the walls have wall paper on the. But we have gotten permission to paint it. And it will look better.

I picked up the daybed that I had purchased last Saturday at Pier 1. Guess what? I don't think it will fit in the living room area. So my plan was to hurry and finish moving then drive back to Augusta and try and return it. Well, you see, it is hanging out the back of the truck. Two very big boxes. And guess what happened? It started raining and the boxes got wet. Boogers. Julianne said she is going to try it in her room for her bed. If she ended up not wanting it, I think I can sell it on Craigslist. I got it half price, so I think it will sell fast. She said she thinks I am meant to have this bed.

I guess that is all my news. Thank you for keeping Scottie and his family in your prayers.

Update

Hey Yall. I just got an email with an update report from Scottie's Dad, Scott. I will share it with you.


8/14/08
Just wanted to give an update on Scottie. Today was a great breakthrough. They have taken him off of the nitrous oxide machine and his oxygen level has held on since 12:30pm today. This is good because they cannot perform the surgery as long as he was on that machine. He is still on the ventilator and hopefully if things go well tonight they will be able to start easing back on that. They have not rescheduled the surgery as of yet I will let everyone know when that will be.

We are so fortunate to have such great support from everyone. Your prayers are working so well. I would like to share with all of you a verse from a book that I purchased in the gift shop in the hospital, It is called One Minute Promises of Comfort by Steve Miller(not the singer).The scripture quoted was James 5:8 which says, "You also be patient, Establish your hearts, for the coming of the Lord." He talks about patience and says don't grow weary; don't give up. Don't think because an answer has not come that there is no answer. God has promised to watch and preserve you. BE PATIENT, AND LET HIM DO WHAT ONLY HE CAN DO.
The last line is very powerful to me and reminded to do just that.

Thanks again for your support and prayers and may God continue to bless each and everyone of your families.

Scott



Thank you all for your prayers. Please continue to remember this family and young man.

Fran

Update

Hey Yall. Beth and Scott were finally able to talk with the Neuro-Surgeon yesterday. The news was not what they had hoped for. There has been spinal cord damage. His lungs are still very bruised. They had to reinflate one lung and do some other procedures on the other. Because he has been fighting the respirator, they have heavily sedated him. The nurses have told them to come in and talk to him even though he will not be able to show any response. His lung problems must improve before they are able to do surgury to prevent any further spinal damage.

I have not talked with Beth since their meeting with the surgeon. Elaine is relaying all the information to friends so she can concentrate on Scotty and her immediate family. Once again I am asking you to pray for Scotty and his family.

Thank you.

Hey Yall.......I don't have anything to report to you about Scotty and his condition. Please keep this family in your prayers.

The Frannycakes family had a very slow and low key day. Which was wonderful! We got up and I made breakfast. Yes, you heard right. I MADE BREAKFAST! It has been rumored that I don't make breakfast and I must now confess that it true that I didn't but I am getting better about it. I just have a hard time waking up in the morning. And I need several cups of coffee and a computer to look at to wake up. And if anybody talks to me.....well....you can call it ALL off! Just ask Dick if you don't believe me!

Julianne watched a season of The Sopranos on the TV in Dick's office. She officially stayed in her PJ's all day long. We all need to do that sometimes, don't we?

I washed 5 loads of clothes. They must be reproducing in our laundry basket upstairs. Honestly. How can Dick and I have so many dirty clothes?

I made the delicious brownies that we made for Mary Ann and Justin's party. Mmmmmmm Good! I cut half of the pan for the neighbors next door. They listened out for Julianne in case she needed anything during Dick's trip down south to meet me. I warned them that we were all nauseous from eating brownies over at our house and to eat them with care. Dick was so full that he had cereal for supper. CEREAL!!!! Now don't get me wrong....I love cereal for supper. But it must be against something in the Baptist Church, or papermaking book of rules that has caused him to be against cereal! I even offered to make him a sandwich with the leftover turkey from a turkey breast that I had cooked and he said he would rather have cereal. Of course a SANDWICH ranks right up there with cereal in offensiveness to him.

Dick mowed grass and made the yard look fabulous. I do love our yard to look fabulous. And it should. We pay Trugreen enough that they should come and mow it. I should point out that before they started coming and doing their stuff we hardly had any grass....just crappy weeds. It's a miracle what they do.

I guess that is all I have for now. I will talk to you later. Don't forget to pray for my friends and their son Scotty. Thank you.

I Need Your Help

Hey Yall. Frannycakes needs your help today.

Many, many years ago even though it feels like just yesterday, I had a group of friends who bonded together in a special way. One of the glues that bonded us was we all seemed to have our children at the same time. We lugged diaper bags and strollers and beach toys together because you really have to love each other to want to go places and be together that much! And we loved each others babies and they became a part of our hearts too. And today part of my heart is aching.

Beth and Scott's son Scotty was in an automobile accident early Saturday morning in Jacksonville, FL. He was thrown from the car and is in ICU in Jacksonville and on a ventilator because lungs are badly bruised. He also broke vertebra close to his neck. He moves arms and hands, but has no sensation below that at this time. He is sedated enough to keep him from fighting the ventilator, but has to keep conscious enough for evaluation. They are waiting to hear from the neuro-surgeon as to whether the trauma/bruising/swelling is keeping him from feeling the bottom half of his body or if there is spinal cord damage.

Scotty is serving in the Navy and is stationed at Mayport. I spoke to Beth last night. She sounded scared. She sounded heart broken. She sounded exhausted. So I am asking all of you who read this to do the most important thing you can do for her and her son Scotty and that is to pray for Scotty and Beth and Scott. Please do this for them.

John Edwards

John Edwards is the newest member of the "Can't Keep It In His Pants Club".

Fashion Friday

Hey Yall! I have been trying to make all of you happy by posting more often and still making this a very interesting and entertaining blog. So today's post will be Fashion Friday. It is an attempt to bring the latest and greatest in fashion and not break the bank.

This will be a great top to wear under t-shirts, blouses and with jackets. Or you can wear it as the model has just by itself. It is certainly hot enough to wear alone.



As you can see, with just the help of a pair of scissors you too can have this top. And what a deal too! You can get a 3 pack for around $6.00! Imagine the possibilities! I know you can hardly wait to get started!

Your welcome.

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